How 365 days can pass by so quickly…
A year in the wake of the George Floyd tragedy, I think it’s important to comprehend the way our divided nation perceives the world differently. A primary example would be how we interpret the definition of BLM.
The left movement is meant to implore that “black lives also matter” (in the face of police discrimination) — the right interprets it as “black lives matter the most,” viewing the implication as somewhat racist.
On the other end, the left sees “All Lives Matter” as an unnecessary and obvious counter-argument that misses the entire point. While the right uses the phrase as a blanket statement to reinforce basic egalitarianism to disarm their interpretation of BLM.
It is my firm belief that trying to understand each other and the principles we adhere to is a fundamental part of a balanced society. And while I think it’s an impossible task to actually “walk a mile in someone else’s shoes,” perspective and compromise are definitely things we could all try harder with on any issue, in any situation.
Most of us (me included) have already cemented their opinions on such divisive topics. But here’s what I suggest, based on an exercise I had to do in a college course: think about an opinion or take that you oppose, then try to mentally or verbally make an argument for it. Actually put effort into it. It will feel silly at first, but you’d be surprised how you suddenly have a greater understanding of the people with which you so vehemently disagree.
We may not have to shake hands and smile about every topic that shapes our media, our nation and our lives. But we can all definitely work to relate more to our fellow humans. Half the time, I don’t even know if I believe my own rhetoric — but I do know that I’ll do my best to try to relate with others if it means we can be a more unified and peaceful country.